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The Grace in Open Door Hospitality

Why is opening my door so hard? The moment I hear a knock, I start to panic that things aren’t right. I rack my brain, frantically trying to remember if I put an extra roll of toilet paper in the bathroom. I wonder if the banana bread I planned on offering turned out right. I doubt that I am enough and wonder if my home will make up for my insufficiencies.

Grace has a funny way of appearing in these moments when I’m relying on my own self-sufficiency. It sneaks into the cracks of my heart and reminds me of the work of Christ and the call on my life. The words of a dear friend run through my head reminding me that, when I leave this life, God isn’t going to ask about the piles of laundry or confirm that I always had an extra roll of toilet paper ready, He’s going to ask if I fed the hungry and clothed the naked.

So I take a deep breath, turn the handle, and wait for grace.

When I open that door and welcome in the weary mom with her energetic toddler, I’m welcoming Christ. Serving them in Christ’s honor is a way of serving Christ Himself. Letting down my guard, showing them that my laundry isn’t always done, that dishes often fill my sink, and that I simply fall short, it shows them I am a real person, not a magazine article.

Because I am a human, I fall short. The Bible makes that clear. Because of who Christ is, I am enough. He fills the gaps of my insufficiencies and makes a beautiful friendship out of a conversation over a cup of tea.

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I don’t have to have a perfect house. Jesus can work even if I forget to hang a clean hand towel in the bathroom. The only thing I have to do is offer what I have for His use.

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Today, that means opening my home and sharing what I have with whomever He sends my way. It means letting a friend come share her heart even if we have to move laundry off the couch and stretching dinner a bit further than planned when someone shows up unexpectedly. It simply means offering whatever my hands are occupied with for Him to use.

So when that door opens and the friend comes in, I remind myself to take a breath. I chase after my thoughts and force them to submit to the truth of Scripture. Remembering that I’m not enough, it frees me to remember that I know the one who is enough and that He is working in my home and through my obedience. And today, He is doing that through open door hospitality.

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  • Carley
    October 2, 2017

    It’s always so reassuring to me when I read posts like this. I find my insecurities can be debilitating sometimes but you are so right. I need to remind myself that I am a real person and not a staging photographer of Good Housekeeping. Thank you for this.

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    • Bailey
      Carley
      October 3, 2017

      You are a real person. And your friends need to know that so that they know it’s okay to be a real person too. Keep on trusting in His goodness, Carley.

      Reply
  • Jaime
    October 2, 2017

    Beautifully written! A great reminder that people do not need us to be perfect, just authentic and welcoming. Sharing with my Facebook group!

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    • Bailey
      Jaime
      October 3, 2017

      Thank you so much, Jamie!

      Reply
  • Kristi
    October 2, 2017

    Yes! I’m learning to take a breath and welcome others as Christ would welcome them even if my house is in total disarray..

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    • Bailey
      Kristi
      October 3, 2017

      Aren’t we all kinda in total disarray? I love that we can share our brokenness with one another and find Christ’s healing in those places.

      Reply
  • Shaylah Coogan
    October 2, 2017

    Just what I needed to hear today. I find myself locked away from letting others in because the house is “dirty” or the dishes haven’t been done. Asking for Grace is a daily chore for me.

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    • Bailey
      Shaylah Coogan
      October 3, 2017

      May we all keep breathing out condemnation and breathing in grace.

      Reply
  • Carri
    October 2, 2017

    As a fan of showing hospitality, it’s good to know others are similarly committed to it. Thanks for the inspiration!

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    • Bailey
      Carri
      October 3, 2017

      It’s a lost art today but we need it! As I’ve written before, it’s not a “calling,” it’s a command from God.

      Reply
  • Corey | The Nostalgia Diaries
    October 2, 2017

    This is lovely. I’m looking for grace today, and I found it here.

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    • Bailey
      Corey | The Nostalgia Diaries
      October 3, 2017

      He is good, Corey. Glad He used this to meet you.

      Reply
  • LILA
    October 2, 2017

    Love this! If I knew how to do the “Amen” emoji hands on this comment, I certainly would. Since I don’t, I’ll just say it, “Amen, sister!”. I’m becoming increasingly aware that relationships are built in each others homes. . . and that means inviting people into my wholly imperfect home. Thank you so much for this post of encouragement and grace! I’m adding your blog to my “Blogs I Like” bookmark folder, and definitely plan to revisit in the future. Thanks!!

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    • Bailey
      LILA
      October 3, 2017

      We need to talk to the emoji people about getting an “AMEN!” emoji! Thank you for your kind words. He is so faithful to the fill in what I lack and to turn my words into more than I could ever do.

      Reply
  • Kristen
    October 2, 2017

    Yes! We have to let go of our doubts and our pride and serve God even if we don’t feel like we’re the perfect one for the job. Thank you for your wise words.

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    • Bailey
      Kristen
      October 3, 2017

      Thank you, Kristen.

      Reply
  • Heather
    October 3, 2017

    “Because I am a human, I fall short. The Bible makes that clear. Because of who Christ is, I am enough. He fills the gaps of my insufficiencies and makes a beautiful friendship out of conversation over a cup of tea.” — This girlfriend, this!!! He fills the gaps of our insufficiencies…There’s a whole lot of joy, peace, and relief packed into that statement. I’m tweeting this.

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    • Bailey
      Heather
      October 3, 2017

      His grace is so truly sufficient in ways I never dreamed.

      Reply
  • Brittany
    October 3, 2017

    This is so refreshing. I am often the weary toddler mom that needs to know that others have undone laundry and dish- filled sinks. ? This

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    • Bailey
      Brittany
      October 3, 2017

      You are not alone, Brittany. We’ve all been there and we all need to be reminded that it’s okay to spend time fellowshipping and playing with that toddler instead of doing dishes.

      Reply
  • Katie Braswell
    October 4, 2017

    I absolutely love this! Keeping up appearances and making my home spotless for my sweet momma friends isn’t real and it isn’t raw! I hear all the time, “Let’s do life together”, then we make sure to show the “life” that’s all together! So silly, life is not all together. It’s messy literally and figuratively! Thank you for sharing, and I’m going to improve on this! “Hey can we get together and chat in 5 minutes?” “Sure come on over!” (Not, “give me 2 hours to make my home look like no one lives here!”)

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    • Bailey
      Katie Braswell
      October 8, 2017

      Exactly! Keep on, Katie.

      Reply
  • Tammy
    October 4, 2017

    Thanks for the reminder of Godly hospitality. As the holiday season approaches we will all have the opportunity to throw the door wide. This was a great nudge to do that every day!

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    • Bailey
      Tammy
      October 8, 2017

      The holiday season will definitely provide a multitude of opportunities. Thanks for pointing that out!

      Reply
  • Karin
    October 4, 2017

    I absolutely love this…”remembering that I’m not enough but I know the one that is enough” I think I have this attitude not just about my house at times but about my appearance. “I can’t possibly go talk to that neighbor – I don’t have any makeup on.” But in reality whether it’s lipgloss or something else I will never be enough. Thank you for the reminder that He fills in and overflows all my many imperfections with His grace.

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    • Bailey
      Karin
      October 8, 2017

      He fills in the gaps and uses us exactly where we are, make-up or not.

      Reply
  • Sara @ The Holy Mess
    October 5, 2017

    What a beautiful post. Thank you for opening your heart (and door!).

    Reply
    • Bailey
      Sara @ The Holy Mess
      October 8, 2017

      Thank you, Sara.

      Reply
  • Angela Sackett
    October 14, 2017

    Bailey – AMEN, sister!!! I’m giving you a spiritual fist-bump – this is the cry of my heart. And it was a good reminder I needed today, when yet again my house is wild-messy after a few days of recipe developing and photography… in this case, my own people need me to welcome them gracefully, too. Thank you!

    Reply
  • Samantha
    December 10, 2019

    Love this. I’m so terrible at being a good hostess. But it’s such a big part of fellowship in the Bible!

    Reply
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